Wednesday, 29 June 2011

Ten Tips to build strong relationship....

1. Have a strong commitment to making your relationship work.
2. Think of yourselves as friends, not just as a couple.
3. Accept each other's limitations.
4. See yourselves as equal partners
5. Pay attention to how you communicate.
6. Develop a support system.
7. Handle disagreements constructively.
8. Make sure each of you has some privacy and independence. 
9. Share rituals and traditions
 
10. Have fun.

Wednesday, 22 June 2011

THE MYSTERY OF LIFE

 Some incidents in life make us laugh and smile, some incidents invites rain of tears to our eyes while some changes the cute faces of ours to awkward and colored faces. There are still other situations and incidents in life which just remind us to remember, stand and stare.And these moments are never fixed and time tabled because nothing in life can be predicted or predefined.Everything changes and it is only time that heals with the flow of so called life.
A moment of smile and laugh can often invite rains of tears. An incident which is a moment of joy for one may not necessarily be the same to another. Sometimes blessings come through raindrops and healing comes through tears.And sometimes the trails of this life, the rains that storms the hardest nights are often the mercies in disguise. There is nothing like constancy except the word itself. A moment of gain may bestow moment of happiness, its not always it vanishes just like a simple breeze that flows at the side of Ocean. We may Love and be Loved but does that mean it will last forever? Can we give guarantee that it will be eternal?
I have always been filled with doubts and suspicions regarding the life i am leading. Every moment, i spent my time just staring or otherwise gazing around my life.I have momentarily and frequently thought if all these happenings are but curse that will ruin my life or are but blessings in disguise. Because what i have noticed and realized out of life (at least up to this stage) is: "we humans tends to remember only the negatives, darker, emotional,and most grievance parts of moments and rarely do we remember those moments that were spent joyously with pride and smile on our face".It seems so partial just like we are suffering from some kind of illness. Yes memories do play very confusing role in our life.It makes you laugh when you remember the time you cried together but invites tears when you remember the time you laughed together.
Now the questions that runs through my guts are:
1. What does all these mean?
2.Am I the only one to experience these types of emotional state?
3. Is this a kind of lesson i needed to learn?
4.Will overcome and become a better person?
5.Am I taking the right track? ......

well these are but the basic questions i asks daily to myself  not because i hate being human but because i don't know how to cope with life. Human life is really wonderful if spent wisely and i do really want to try and attain that state some fine day......

Tuesday, 21 June 2011

MY BEST FRIEND









Without you life seems so monotonous my dear
With gestures of warmth and tokens of affections
I wish if we are here physically near
The unsolicited advice and unwelcomed attention
The boundless time and energy you sacrificed
Has always oiled the cogs of  my life
The true and sincere sentiments we shared
Shedded the very shackles of my life
Alone may be we at a time or other
Yet separation is a mere illusion
The momentous moments we share
Are but eternal memories of emotion
As this lovely life cease to roll
So will you with my own soul

Friday, 17 June 2011

THE POSITIVE SIDE OF LIFE...

Life is wonderful when shared with some one who understands one's understanding
Life is beautiful when we have someone to whom we can stand and stare
Life is easy when there is someone whom we can rely and lend their hand
Life is smooth when there is someone who can grease and lubricate all rusts
Life is trustworthy when there is someone who can trust one's own trust
Life is healthy when there is someone who heals old sores and wound
Life is full of fun when played with someone who understands the rule of game
Life is refreshing when leaned under the shadow of someone's arm
Life is easy healing when comforted with undoubted truth and no lie
Life is cool when one's sweat is being swept by someone we trust
Life is always hopeful when walked with someone we always wanted
Life is all the more perfect when there is someone who understands imperfectness
                                                                                            (Dedicated to my love....cheers!!!!!!!!)