Have you ever thought
in life like if only I took the other way, like if only I made different choice
or if only I thought twice, if only I can go back etc? I have, many times and
it still haunts me sometimes. We come across
many junctures where we have to make decisions, choices and it is not always in
our favor. We don’t realize if it is right or wrong at that very moment t. It is
with time, where at times you look back, sigh and sometimes wonder with vague
questions running through your nerves and spinning around making you dizzy. The
more you try to find answer, the more you tend to get questions. As such life
goes on.
As young energetic guys
(and girls) driven by varied emotions, we tend to easily get trapped into
sometimes unwise and junky sticky areas. You see emotions are sensitive and
powerful; it can make or break one’s life. There are some very specific areas
where I think my emotions have taken over my wisdom to make decisions. Some were
taken ad-hoc while others repetitively have engraved me to haste and make some
of the worst decisions of my life which I regret terribly. But at the same time
I also have something good to cherish, perhaps without those wrong decisions, I
wouldn’t be where I stand right now. Perhaps to balance between these two is
our prerogative and at our very hand. I don’t think there is anyone who haven’t
had both rough and smooth trail. The
point is whether you are driven by sheer emotion or wisdom, we ought to step
back once and look forward as to see the clear picture of what lies ahead. Don’t
ever haste to make decisions. If you think you are ready get married just
because you have a decent job, think also about the baggage it comes with and
the consequences after. If you think your current job will make you happy and
satisfied, think also about why you can’t fit into another profession. If you
thought you could make your parents happy and serve them with all the love and
care, think also about why you are not happy in the first place. If you think
family and relatives are all you have got, think also about a friend who
accompanies you through thick and thin. If you think only bad things are on
your way, think also otherwise about when you had that genuine smile on your
face.
Life is really a mess
if we can’t separate a grain from sand!
