In life it is hard to lead life without help and
assistance from others. This society of ours is too large, complex and
difficult to lead a lone life. Everything is intertwined and we ought to fit in
that maze and have certain circle of people to depend upon each other, we ought
to know and have certain personal relationships because we never know what
comes next and when we might need their help or lend them help. I am very
reserved kind of person and I admit that I am but very poor in this area. i
have recently realized that personal relationships play very important role in
Bhutanese society, otherwise the pace is
very snail-y and the worst victims are ourselves who have little or no personal
relations at all. Even if we know certain people through various Medias, it is
of huge help.
For past weeks I have been trying to avail small
amount of loan. I went Thimphu to process for the loan and as expected the
customer service division was busy like bee. There was huge number of people on
the chairs waiting for their turn to avail service. I also joined them and
waited in queue for my turn. I felt impatient after waiting for about two long
hours perhaps because I was totravel all
the way back to Paro while the clock on the wall was ticking and crossing 0500pm which is the closing of
office hours. Just then I remembered a friend, a senior from my school days who
was working in that organization. Ididn’t want to come empty handed back home.
I asked one of the employeesabout her who showed me the direction of her
office. Luckily she was in her office. She knew why I might have come and instantly
took bundle of my papers, requested a
friend of her to process. By the time the paper works were all done, it was
almost 0600pm, I thanked them all for their help, my friend in particular and
came back with smile, I had peaceful sleep (:P)
Bhutan is a too small for such things to happen
but sadly the reality is otherwise and such things are very rampant. Now a day
even to get one signature has become hard and often the service is thought of
as a favor than one’s duty and responsibility. But ultimately at the end of the
day, for common people having a good PR really helps and has become a kind of
necessity. With this I would like to thank my friend Tshering for helping me.
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