Tuesday, 22 May 2012

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

People say long distance relationship does not last long. However i say long distance relationship is best;  provided there exist complete trust and faith to each other. Long distance relationship teaches us to be faithful, trustful, and loyal not only to others but to yourself as well. Of course clouds of doubts and suspicions do come by along the line, yet these are but stepping stones onto which we can lay our trust, faith and loyalty.
Long distance relationship indicates how much we value each other and how much true we are to our self and how much it means to be but two as one. It tests our patience, our temperament, and frustration. As long as we overcome all these and are under our right hand, i think all is well. Although what is most essential in long relationship is the frequent reminder as to say how much we are to each other, the communication. On the other hand, the other type of relationship,this hardly takes place, because people are being blinded by the mere pleasures and unhealthy intentions which rather creates a foul atmosphere as a consequence as the time passes.
Friends often say to me: "when you will meet you sweetheart?" "Before you get to hold her she might run away " bla, bla...bla...how ever i am always firm (at least up to this day). what i believe is as long as we are bounded by unwavering thread of trust, faith and loyalty, everything would be at bay. Distance is not something for fearful; it is for the bold; for those who are willing to spend lot of time alone in the exchange for a little time with the loved ones; it is for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it really enough.
As Helen Keller says:"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot  be seen or touched; they must be felt with heart", i think it all depends on how true we are to our self. Distance never separates two hearts that really care, for memories span the miles and in seconds we are there. we feel sad because we miss our loved ones and this reminds us how lucky are we to have someone so special to miss.