“Educate an individual to develop a family, but educate
women to develop a community”
Well, not long ago, the common notion was men for work and
women to serve men, confined to the four corners of an apartment; there was
hardly an instant when women broke that shell of confinement. Women were
treated like servants, without right to say, right to education and right to
rise. However the situations have changed now; the mindset of people has
drastically evolved; women have broken that stereotype shell and now where men
have his feet women has managed to reached there, Women has conquered what man
has; walked where men has. Be it in politics, science, arts, health, or any
organizational hierarchy there are women, although the ratio of men still
outnumbers women. And that is one
obvious reason as to why women must be empowered, encouraged and enabled.
A mother carries a baby for nine months in pain and shame, eats
with shit, sacrifices in rain and sun to protect. If there is one person who knows
every movement of child, every strength and weakness, in fact every aspect, it
is the mother. A child is very much
shaped by a mother. How good or bad a child becomes later or how healthy or
unhealthy a child is all depends on the mother herself. How can we expect a better and productive
child if mother herself isn’t? How can
we expect a chaos free society if the chaotic state of mothers aren’t
addressed? Mothers (women) are but the root of everything, the growth, the
development, advancement and longevity. It
therefore becomes imperative that the society accepts such facts. It seems that
the society and we as an individual have forgotten the value of women. She at
the personal level must be aware of all the roles and responsibilities as a
mother, as the root of the very existence of life. And how do we go for it? Well, with proper care and education, with proper
awareness, empowerment and encouragement. Strong messages of important aspects like the
consequences of giving birth to large number of child, the advantages of being
healthy and happy must be reached to the mothers in the far flung corners.
But the irony is that women are still considered inferior,
incompetent and weak, we still have lots of blatant violence against women;
there are rapid rise in rape cases and harassments. I feel the more campaigns
we talk about empowering women, the more such unfortunate incidents tend to
occur and that’s saddening. Almost every
day we hear and read about the merciless and shocking news of an innocent girl being
molested or gang raped and the culprit either being escaped or sentenced. I
feel such things have become very casual in the daily life of ours. Imagine
20-30 years from now into the future, how will the state of the women,
ultimately the sate of world be if such things are not addressed and considered
with proper precautions and judgments before it is too late?
Now we have started to hear lots of unimaginable acts like
mothers strangling her own new born child and preferring abortion just because the
child is but a girl, a huge problems of gendercide is robbing off the women from coming to the life,
which results to sex trafficking . From where and why has such stigmas evolved?
Although Bhutanese girls are fortunate
enough comparatively with no gender discrimination and equal opportunities, we
have huge gap in the ratio of men to women in any fields. There is sudden rise
of the violence against women, flesh trades are coming into existence and these
are some of the wide areas, where policy makers might consider lifting up the
status of women. With two political parties headed by women presidents now and
gearing for the 2nd parliamentary elections, hope more Bhutanese women
are encouraged and empowered.
Happy International
Women's Day!
More of their oppressions and inequality are now subsided.. and i think mother won't be shame for bearing baby lol!!
ReplyDeleteAnyways nice thoughts!!!
Hmmm yea i guess you are right too..:)
DeleteThanks for reading!..
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DeleteThought provoking articles.... thanks,appreciate ur thoughts..... well gender equalization was always there in our country before the world even started voicing out these thoughts... only that women did not want to come forward and take advantages of the opportunity being given. However, somewhere and somehow, leadership of a women was not recognized by Bhutanese men, and therefore were not given opportunity to prove themselves. Hence that was where Bhutanese woman lagged behind. Even today, I keep hearing from male colleagues that they cannot imagine a woman Prime Minister representing Bhutan to the outside world! Just my personal views!
ReplyDeleteWell, we never know whether a female prime Minister will do better than male for Bhutan unless we experience. with two political parties headed by female, we have chance to witness i think.
DeleteThanks for your good comment...:)